Some years ago, I wish someone, just anyone I respected or loved very much sounded or said this to my hearing with strong reasons and examples so we could debate on it and make our choices.
Well, today, I'm here sounding and saying this, I hope it makes sense to my wonders.
The saying that 'A goat eats where it is tied' as spoken by my dad
repeatedly didn't much much sense and wisdom to me until recently. Yes! a goat, sheep, human will mostly function properly within their own environs.
I spent years trying avoiding dating or to marry in my field.
Like, I made it a turn off to not even consider those in my field then worth it. That can make you not take interested suitors seriously or just make them not take you serious enough too. Because your beliefs will affect your relationship always.
NOW! I'm here saying, it will help you to date/marry more in your chosen field than another. Nothing is a 100% guarantee in life, but marriage is daily communications, common interest.
Inasmuch as different career path spouses may be considered as fun in logically, it may not be that fun practically.
Actresses, I urge you to date/marry more with the industry of entertainment and show biz generally. Bankers should date and marry more with corporate fields. Nurses and doctors
should date and marry more in the medical/health fields.
•••Teachers are the only blessed people on earth. They blend in every field•••
This is my opinion!
Agree/Disagree Its just something I think I can boldly say. Only one setback for women though. My biggest advice to every WOMAN especially AFRICAN WOMEN, this is very important. Listen to this, it will ruin you.
AVOID MEN WHO SPEND SO MUCH TIME ON SOCIAL MEDIA, MEN WHO BRING TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO THEMSELVES whether they are in show biz or not. That's A Red Flag.
Most marriages that will Last and Happily too, are those that The Men Don't ''attract Unnecessary Attention'' To themselves On Social Media. We are in Social media Age my wonders and that ain't SLOWING DOWN anytime SOON!
Thanks For reading....#ToMoreThanWeCanBe
Collette Orji. © 2017