Collette Orji - Are You Under Pressure To Prove That You Are Happy?...

Recently, some issues made headlines for us Bloggers, journalist, gossips, idle mongers, marriage bashers, miracle bashers, facebook landlords, social media kings and even market men and women in Ochanger main market in Onitcha and Balogun market Island, Lagos.

 I started blogging early this year so, I'm going to restrict this piece within that time range.






Part 1.


It started with my colleague, the very beautiful Tonto Dikeh,

( a kind woman whom I've personally benefitted from her kindness, Story for another day ) and her now estranged husband Olakunle Churchill. I loved that Union! I personally wanted to make sure I attend the white wedding ceremony by all means because the love I have for Poko, especially during the making of our movie from Simony production, Blackberry babes. 
She did something for me, She's such a giver.

 Read Here and Here

During Tonto's publicised video interview where she wept and talked about the domestic violence she suffered at the hands of her beautiful son's daddy, One thing kept pounding in my head. 
How is this all possible? How! How! I wondered. Like most of you reading this now, I really was unhappy, truly I was.

 Pardon me as I digress just for a second. During the making of the movie Blue Blood in Asaba some years back, I knew how many movies Tonto could do back to back as long as she was available. 
During the making of Blackberry, girls season 2, I spent more time in her Hummer jeep then, chilling and enjoying my Aircondition under the crazy sunny weather then in Lagos. 
By all standards, Tonto Dikeh was absolutely making money from her job - Acting! Some Actors don't make so much as expected by viewers ( Story For Another Day)...
Back To Poko, Tonto, I didn't understand why she celebrated the things Churchill bought for her so much, because, to the best of my knowledge, in my opinion...She had done well and afforded the best things for herself prior to marriage. 
I later on understood in her videos that she did her best to keep a happy marriage, and would do what is even not required of her to keep her man and marriage intact. 



This is something I don't approve of personally, but also, it is something I do understand absolutely. Trust me my wonders... I am a married woman, and I fully understand what is involved every now and then. Like I said, I do not approve that for my friends, but I understand it anyways.


Part 11:

Apostle Johnson Suleman, a clergyman and pastor and Miss Stephanie Otobo, Young Nigerian lady based in Canada.

Everyone read and got entertained, I covered it on my blog www.cocowondersblog.com as well as the news kept unfolding mainly from the outstanding SaharaReporters and news outlet generally in Nigeria. 
I was jabbed and insulted by so and so and they couldn't understand I really was just reposting what they kept making public and doing my job that I gave myself, I couldn't really be bothered.

I've never known Apostle Suleman, and I still don't know him. As a matter of fact, I really don't care. He doesn't know me and he's doing his job too. I don't know Miss Stephanie Otobo and I really don't care. She was just expressing her dilemma to the world also in her own rights.
Guilty or innocent is not my business and I pity those who considered him innocent mainly because he's a named pastor as much as I pitied those who assumed Miss Stephanie Otobo guilty because she didn't look nice enough or well raised enough or she didn't bring proof!
 You see, my job is not in the declaring of guilt and innocents departments, far from it - people spend hours posting all sorts of things on the internet publicly for public consumption and we just help them make it go much viral.

Read HERE and HERE and HERE and HERE
 Post a very beautiful picture of you now and hashtag #cocowonder on it on Instagram, I will definitely help you to repost it.

Part 3;

Social media delved into Nollywood actress Oge Okoye and the alleged 'Stolen Puppy' photos. That was hilarious right? I know...well, I'm going somewhere with this story, I hope I get there fast enough...Read Here

Part  4;

We landed on singer Kcee, Limpopo master, damn! I love that song. The way I just keep whining my waist and using my fingers exactly like Kcee did it and I just be smiling like he dashed me some dollars. Lol! the alleged stolen Dollar photo and the drama that followed... Read About Limpopo Here

Part 5;

Wow! this seems to be endless so far. The public and difficult timing of both Nollywood actress, the very very beautiful Mercy Aigbe and her estranged husband, who is into hotel businesses, Lanre Gentry (I Like that Name Gentry...). 
This has all been publicly displayed and believe me, it's still a developing story.I want to focus on just one thing here, the fact that Mercy Aigbe, has been allegedly abused for about seven years.

 7 whole years and she didn't just hide it, she misguided herself, her fans, and I guess friends. She did what she could do in her own right to keep the peace of her home for seven whole years.
 If you think it is easy to be with one man/one woman for seven years in one house living as a couple -  go and try your own. Go and get married and stay, we can talk later... Read On Mercy Aigbe Here and HERE

 Mercy Aigbe deceived Mercy Aigbe for the sake of Hope, fear, Shame, and just Faith that it will get better...this is according to her recently released interview.

Meanwhile, we all cannot forget Banky W. and Adesua's Engagement and Marriage that brought Smiles and happiness to almost everyone everywhere...Love story that brings joy...read it here Such a beautiful Love story.

Now to the cross of the matter!!!

I have some questions!!!

ARE YOU UNDER ANY KIND OF PRESSURE TO PROVE TO ME OR YOU OR JAMES OR LINDA OR JACOB OR MARY THAT YOU ARE:


a: Happy?
b: Happier than them?
c: Better?
d: Better than them?



Wedding Essentials at SPANX
  • ARE YOU? ARE YOU UNDER ANY KIND OF PRESSURE?

  • WHO PUT YOU UNDER THAT PRESSURE?

  • IS IT NECESSARY?

  • HOW LONG DO YOU WANT THAT PRESSURE TO LAST?

  • WHAT IS THE REWARD?

  • DOES IT MAKE YOU HAPPY?

  • DO YOU LIKE MISLEADING PEOPLE NORMALLY?

  • IS THAT YOUR CHARACTER?

  • DOES PRETENCE AND LIARS MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER AFTERWARDS?

  • DO YOU LIKE WHERE YOU ARE?

  • HAVE YOU SOUGHT FOR HELP?

  • WHAT IS THAT THING THAT MAKES YOU LIVE IN A ONE ROOM HOUSE AND 
  • MAKE YOU POST ANOTHER PERSON HOUSE AND CALL IT YOURS? IS IT YOUR SO CALLED FAITH?

  • WHO PUT YOU UNDER PRESSURE?

  • MUST YOU MAKE POST OF OUTRIGHT LIES TO DECEIVE BTH YOU AND THOSE 

  • WHO CAN HELP YOU?

  • WHAT IS THE STORY AND COMPETITION ABOUT?

  • WHO IS WINNING NOW?

  • ARE YOU UNDER PRESSURE?....WHO THE F**K IS PRESSURING YOU?

Thanks For reading...and sharing.believing in me

Yours Coco Wonder


AllRights Reserved  © Collette Orji 2017

AllRights Reserved  © Collette Orji 2017

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